| Location | Wishaw, Lanarkshire |
| Age | 59 years |
| Cause of Death | Stroke |
| Date of Birth | 30/07/1912 |
| Date of Death | 29/07/1972 |
| Visitors | 1,467 since 07/09/2008 |
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Dad, JOHN CAIRNS, was born in Hamilton, Lanarkshire, to my Granny Agnes Grant and Granda Thomas
Cairns. His dad died when he was a baby and Granny re-married Mr McAllister, who I never knew. I
don't know anything about him, but he obviously re-named my Dad as his own. By the time I was born,
Mr McAllister had passed on and Granny was married again, to Mr Millar. I never knew him either,
till the night Granny died, and I went to the house to find out what was happening. Mr Millar was in
the pub, Granny was lying in the Mortuary in Cleland Hospital, Wishaw. That was the one and only
time I ever remember seeing my Granny Millar, as we called her. A close family we were not. Dad went
to her funeral, but would not let any of us go.
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Dad worked in The Clyde Alloy Steel Works in Netherton, Wishaw, for as long as I can remember, and I
can't remember any time when he missed a shift. He worked until the night we were wakened by men at
the door to tell us he had taken ill at his work (nightshift) and was in Glasgow Royal Infirmary.
Dad was a stroke victim, who was then bed-ridden, crabbit-faced and IMPOSSIBLE for 4 years before he
died. My Mother, Nellie, nursed him day and night. He wouldn't let ANYBODY but Mum or Aunt Janet
(his wee sister) attend to him, he would not have a Day Nurse or allow a Home Help to look after
him. If I offered him a cup of tea he hunted me out of his room. He even took the nasty against
my wee sons, Chris & Ziggy, as his condition worsened. They just wanted to love their Granda, but
he wouldn't have them in his sight. The strokes took his brain, and a lot of our life, away from
him and us. Aunt Janet insisted the POW Camp, where he was held for 5 years, had destroyed him. He
was not the brother she knew before the war.
Dad passed away in Law Hospital, and was cremated at Daldowie in Glasgow. Mum dedicated a rose bush
at Daldowie for him, but we have no headstone as such to visit. His ashes were scattered at his rose
bush.
Dad was in the Black Watch Regiment, and went to Burma, France, Germany during the 2nd World War. He
was a P.O.W. in Germany for 5 years. Dad was a keen gardener, he grew all the veg for the family and
lovely flowers for mum. We were banned from the strawberry patch, for obvious reasons. He liked a
pint and a game of dominoes in his local pub and was fond of dogs. He loved my boys, Chris & Ziggy,
although he called them Wullie & Airchie, for the fun of it. But for a while before he passed, he
could not stand the sight of any of us, his brain was so badly affected.
God Love You Dad, it wasn't pleasant for us, but it can't have been easy for you either. We were not
a close, loving, family unit, but you know we all adored mum to bits. She wanted for nothing after
you were gone, we all closed rank around her, our very special lady, our Duchess. Thanks for
choosing her Dad, she was the very best.
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~ In My Mind (by Jenn Farrell) ~
Somewhere in my dreams tonight
I'll see you standing there,
You look at me with a smile
"Life isn't always fair."
You say you were chosen for His garden
His preciously hand picked bouquet,
"God really needed me
That's why I couldn't stay."
It's said to be that angels
Are sent from above,
I've always had my angel
Whose heart was filled with love.
Wherever the ocean meets the sky,
There will be memories of you and I.
When I look up at that sky so blue,
All I see are visions of you.
"While there's a heart in me, you'll be a part of me."
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♥ The Promise ♥
(by Diane Robertson)
Of angel wings and heavenly things
There’s very little known,
For those who have the answers
Are, forever, from us gone.
Life in the hereafter,
In faith, I must accept;
Thoughts that trouble not the people
With families still intact.
But, those of us who’ve travelled
Down the lonely path of grief,
Are forever seeking answers
To the riddle, which is life.
We trek through shadowed forests
Past the ugly shroud of death,
Toward a promise for the future
Of a kinder, better place.
So, we look to see the angel wings
And listen for the hymn
That God will send to guide us
When we leave to be with Him.
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❁ The Tapestry of Life ❁
(Author Unknown)
"Tis said that old Time is a shuttle,
Swift weaving the web of our days;
In and out fly fast speeding moments
Thro' the warp and the wool of earth's maze.
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At times all the colors seem sombre,
Again there are dashes of bright;
Anon all life's threads knot and tangle,
And only defects meet our sight,
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Full often we stand and in wonder
We gaze at the unveiling loom,
Which hides the design of the fabric
Until we have reached the dark tomb.
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Only this do we know that the groundwork,
Thro' which the bright colors are twined,
Is woven of charity's fibers,
Which serve the threads closely to bind.
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And when the last thread has been broken,
And the loom is forever at rest,
We shall see that our life's great Designer,
Knew what for His children was best.
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♥ REMEMBERING ♥ (Author Unknown) ♥
♥ There will come a day
♥ when your tears of sorrow
♥ will softly flow into tears of remembrance...
♥ and your heart will begin to heal itself...
♥ and grieving will be interrupted by episodes of joy...
♥ and you will hear the whisper of hope.
♥ There will come a day
♥ when you will welcome the tears of remembrance...
♥ as a sunshower of the soul...
♥ a turning of the tide...
♥ a promise of peace.
♥ There will come a day when you will...
♥ risk loving...
♥ go on believing...
♥ and treasure the tears of remembering.
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*** Love to you and your Angel from Mel. ***
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High Flight.
Oh, I have slipped the surly bonds of earth
And danced the skies on laughter-silvered wings.
Sunward I've climbed and joined the tumbling mirth
Of sun split clouds - and done a hundred things
You have not dreamed of; wheeled and soared and swung
High in the sunlit silence. Hovering there
I've chased the shouting wind along, and flung
My eager craft through footless halls of air;
Up, up the long delirious burning blue
I've topped the windswept heights with easy grace,
Where never lark nor even eagle flew;
And while, with silent lifting mind I've trod
The high, un-trespassed sanctity of space
Put out my hand and touched the face of God.
(by John Gillespie McGee)
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☆•☆ A MESSAGE FROM YOUR ANGEL ☆•☆
♥ I'd Rather See You Smiling ♥
( Alan Pemberton)
You must not think that I have gone
Please don't grieve or pine
I'd rather see you smiling
Laughing - working - looking fine
Death is an exciting key
Which opens many doors
It leads us into other worlds
Quite similar to yours
Life is not an accident
Death is not the end
God designed a mystery
Life and death do blend
So do not think that I have gone
Please don't brood or pine
I'd rather see you smiling
Laughing - working - looking fine
☆•☆ A TENDER REPLY ☆•☆
♥ I Promise ♥
(Author Unknown)
I promise I won't cry forever
But I need to just today.
I promise I will remember
How to live and how to play.
I promise that I'll dry my tears
When the heartache goes away.
I promise that it won't take years
But I need another day.
I promise that I'll live my life
As you would want me to.
I promise when I'm facing strife
I'll face it straight and true.
I promise I will endeavour
To do the best I can each day.
I promise I won't cry forever
But I need to just today.
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The years will fall like autumn leaves upon his memory.
The touch of Time will ease the heartache, gently, tenderly...
It cannot always be like this; the agony will cease.
And I, resigned, shall find at last - my healing and my peace.
There comes a time when grief must end and sorrow pass away.
Never will he be forgotten - but there'll come a day -
when I shall remember him without a stab of pain -
happy in the secret knowledge that we'll meet again.
(Patience Strong)
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♥═══♥ Life is a Journey ♥═══♥
Birth is a beginning
and death a destination
And life is a journey:
From childhood to maturity
and youth to age;
From innocence to awareness
and ignorance to knowing;
From foolishness to desecration
and then perhaps to wisdom.
From weakness to strength or
from strength to weakness
and often back again;
From health to sickness
and we pray to health again.
From offence to forgiveness
from loneliness to love
from joy to gratitude
from pain to compassion
from grief to understanding
from fear to faith.
From defeat to defeat to defeat
until looking backwards or ahead
We see that victory lies not
at some high point along the way
but in having made the journey
step by step
a sacred pilgrimage.
Birth is a beginning
and death a destination
And life is a journey;
A sacred journey to life everlasting.
(Author Unknown)
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Rest your weary head and drift off into dreams,
Frolic in the sunshine and bathe in God's moonbeams.
Use the stars as stepping-stones to take you to your peace,
The pain of life forgotten now you have found release.
Without rain a flower folds, the petals drop and die,
There was no way to save you, you couldn't even cry.
So we cry all the tears instead as we must let you go
To Heaven, and God's garden to blossom and to grow.
The little seed is planted, you'll be watered every day,
The angels will tend all your needs as in their arms you lay.
Your life will be amazing now and full of wondrous things,
Rest in peace, our dear, sweet John, go fly on angels wings.
(Author unknown)
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I stood by your bed last night;
I came to have a peep.
I could see that you were crying you found it hard to sleep.
I spoke to you softly as you brushed away a tear,
'It's me, I haven't left you, I'm well, I'm fine, I'm here.'
I was close to you at breakfast,
I watched you pour the tea,
You were thinking of the many times, your hands reached to me.
I was with you at the shops today; your arms were getting sore.
I longed to take your parcels, I wish I could do more.
I was with you at my grave today; you tend it with such care.
I want to re-assure you, that I'm not lying there.
I flew with you towards the house, as you fumbled for your key.
I gently landed on you; I smiled and said, 'it's me.'
You looked so very tired, and sank into a chair. I tried so hard to let you know, that I was there.
It's possible for me, to be so near you everyday.
To say to you with certainty, 'I never went away.'
You sat there very quietly, then smiled, I think you knew...
in the stillness of that evening, I was very close to you.
The day is over... I smile and watch you yawning and say 'good-night, God bless, I'll see you in the morning.'
And when the time is right for you to cross the brief divide,
I'll fly across to greet you and we'll stand, side by side.
I have so many things to show you,
there is so much for you to see.
Be patient, live your journey out...
then come home to be with me.
- Author unknown
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